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05/07/2013

A Letter to My Kids (and a Pampers Giveaway)

This review was made possible by Double Duty Divas and Pampers. I was provided the featured product free of charge to facilitate my review, but all opinions are 100% mine.

Almost everything I know about being a mom is what my kids have taught me.  Does that seem strange?  I mean, you would think as the more experienced person (as opposed to kids with limited life experience, having just been born and all) – I’d have the answers.  Instead, I’m looking to these sweet faces with as many questions as answers sometimes.

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You parents know, parenting comes with a lot more questions than you would think.  And while some things you can research or ask for advice about (What do I do about this diaper rash? When will those first teeth make an appearance?), many of the questions you really have are things your child will teach you about themselves.

Like…  How will I know if I’m doing a good job as a mom? 

Yeah.  I’ve pondered that a lot more than I care to admit.

Parenting is tough.  Not just because it’s a round-the-clock gig, but it tests you.  You discover things you didn’t know were in you, and it’s your kids that bring them out in you.  And for that, I want to say thank you to my daughter and my son – for teaching me what means to be a mom.

Dear Raya,

I had no idea that babies were born with a will as strong as yours.  From day one, you knew what you wanted, and you weren’t shy about telling us.  At just one day old, you were the loudest baby in the nursery.  But you know what?  That helped me to know what to do.  I didn’t ever have to worry about when to feed you, to change you, to rock you, or when to let you sleep – because you helped me out and let me know just what to do.  I relate well to the direct approach, and that’s 100% you!  You and I are going to drive Daddy crazy, because we’re just alike once we’ve set our minds to something.  And it cracks me up every time I see you follow my lead.

Raya2

Dear Roman,

Your sister paved the way, so by the time you arrived, I wasn’t terrified about what to do with a baby.  So thank you, thank you, for being such a happy and easygoing guy.  You love to laugh and smile.  You love just spending time together.  You’re just like your Dad like that.

  Roman3
I’m proud of both of you.  You’ve both taught me what it means to be a mother; until you both came along I couldn’t understand that role.  That’s because it’s not a one-size-fits-all kind of job.  See, it’s not about being a mother, it’s being your mother.  Learning what you need, and what’s the best way to help you grow.  It’s recognizing your talents and encouraging you to pursue your dreams, whether that’s to be a ballerina or a scientist or a photographer or a doctor.  Okay, Roman, you’re a really big guy, already in your size 5 diapers… you may be too big to be a ballerina someday, haha.  But that doesn’t mean you can’t still dance if you want to.  (And Raya, I hate to break it to you, but you can never grow up to be a dog or a unicorn or a fairy someday, either.  I know, it’s not fair.  We can still play pretend, though.)

The number one thing that being a mother has taught me is to respect who you are, because it wasn’t until I met the both of you on that first day of your life that I understood that babies are born with distinct and recognizable personalities.  So I am here to support you in being true to yourselves, and be the best you both can be.  Because you sure bring that out in me.

Raya3.1

Love, Mom

So what does this all have to do with Pampers?  Well, I think moms everywhere deserve to enjoy this time in their kids’ lives, of getting to know their kids, embracing their developing personalities, and just taking joy in the giggles.  But for some moms, even having enough diapers for their kids is a financial burden.  How stressful it must be.  I think about how blessed I am to be able to enjoy my time with my kids without the basics on my mind.  So Pampers has partnered with Feeding America, and they’ve made the commitment that for every view the following video gets, they will donate a diaper to a baby in need – up to a million diapers.  So watch it, celebrate the mom-baby bond, and help out a mom in need.

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Pampers has a special thank you for you, too!  One Happy Hour Projects reader will win this “Thanks, Baby” prize pack!  Worth $100, there’s a gift card to Target for setting up a family portrait, a silver photo frame, an activity book of games to play with your baby, and diapers and wipes, it’s a great celebration of your bond with your own little one.  Just follow Pampers on Facebook and on Twitter, and Rafflecopter will walk you through the rest!

a Rafflecopter giveaway

For more chances to win great Pampers goodies, join us for a Twitter party on May 8th, from 9pm-10pm EST.  You can RSVP at this link: http://www.twtvite.com/thanksbaby.  To participate, follow your hosts @DoubleDutyDivas, @BridgetteLA, @CeceliaMecca @AngieKcom @WhatMommiesNeed @RamblingChick, and our sponsor @Pampers.  You can win any of the following prizes:

  • 2 packs of Swaddlers and a $50 Sephora Gift Card
  • 2 packs of Swaddlers and a $100 Kohl’s Gift Card
  • 2 packs of Swaddlers and a $100 Gallery Direct Gift Card
  • 2 packs of Swaddlers and a BOB Revolution Jogging Stroller
    ($350) Stroller and FitBit Zip($50)
  • RSVP: 2 packs of Swaddlers

So, what has parenting taught you, or what have you learned from the mothers in your life?

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Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Thomas Murphy says

    05/15/2014 at 9:03 pm

    I learned to be responsible.

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  2. latanya says

    05/15/2014 at 8:25 pm

    I learned to enjoy the simple things in life more

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  3. Amanda Sakovitz says

    05/15/2014 at 1:10 pm

    i have learned patience

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  4. Dawn Monroe says

    05/14/2014 at 11:54 pm

    I learned strength and endurance from my kids and patience from my grandkids.

    Reply
  5. Dominique says

    05/14/2014 at 4:23 pm

    I have learned unconditional love from my little ones.

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  6. christine jessamine says

    05/14/2014 at 2:21 pm

    I have learned more patience, love and understanding

    Reply
  7. Melanie says

    05/14/2014 at 10:14 am

    Be flexible! I’m not very good at it though.

    Reply
  8. Linda Stull says

    05/14/2014 at 9:36 am

    Even when your kids grow up, you definitely need more patience

    Reply
  9. Ashley Tucker says

    05/13/2014 at 1:17 am

    I’ve learned patience.

    Reply
  10. Dana says

    05/12/2014 at 12:23 am

    I learned how to be more patient

    Reply
  11. Jennifer Marie says

    05/11/2014 at 10:12 pm

    I’ve learned that it takes a lot of patience to be a parent.

    Reply
  12. D Schmidt says

    05/11/2014 at 7:16 pm

    I learned I am less important in some ways than I ever imagined and much more in others.

    Reply
  13. Beth W says

    05/11/2014 at 5:18 pm

    I learned a lot of patience and that I’m very able to function on a couple of hours a sleep a night.

    Reply
  14. katherine says

    05/11/2014 at 8:50 am

    I learned that patience is one of the most important things a parent can have

    Reply
  15. shelly peterson says

    05/11/2014 at 12:11 am

    I have learned to have patience and to take one day at a time.

    Reply
  16. Kenny Hall says

    05/11/2014 at 12:09 am

    I have learned selflessness.

    Reply
  17. barbara n says

    05/10/2014 at 11:01 pm

    I learned that days may go by slowly, but the years fly by! Can’t believe that my kids are now grown!

    Reply
  18. amy pugmire says

    05/10/2014 at 10:23 pm

    I have learned to love unconditionally and to be patient.

    Reply
  19. Amelia Drew says

    05/10/2014 at 3:01 pm

    I have learned how to be truly patient!

    Reply
  20. Amy Stonger says

    05/10/2014 at 2:48 pm

    The most valuable lesson I’ve learned as a mother is to choose your battles; not everything is worth fighting over!

    Reply
  21. courtney b says

    05/10/2014 at 2:09 pm

    i’ve learned to be a better person, more patient more honest. and just how to love better

    Reply
  22. Susan DeVaux says

    05/10/2014 at 4:20 am

    I have learned to have more patience

    Reply
  23. Barbara Montag says

    05/08/2014 at 10:52 pm

    The biggest thing I’ve learned is to set my priorities – can’t do everything!
    thank you

    Reply
  24. Heather Hayes Panjon says

    05/08/2014 at 4:17 pm

    I Learned To Treasure Each Moment, That The Small Moments Are The Greatest!

    Reply
  25. Sandra says

    05/08/2014 at 2:07 pm

    Have patience and try and see things from their perspective.

    Reply
  26. Shirley says

    05/08/2014 at 2:00 am

    I never thought that I could love someone so deeply. A messy house didn’t seem to bother me anymore as I valued my time with my child. They grow up too fast.

    Reply
  27. Jessie C. says

    05/07/2014 at 11:17 pm

    One thing I learned from them is it is ok to be not perfect, messy can be fun.

    Reply
  28. Stacey says

    05/07/2014 at 11:12 pm

    Being a parent has taught me how precious life is

    Reply
  29. steven weber says

    05/07/2014 at 8:51 pm

    I learned to love and be honest.

    Reply
  30. meredith says

    05/07/2014 at 7:11 pm

    Ive learned lots of different ways to show love from my mother

    Reply
  31. Jessica To says

    05/07/2014 at 6:14 pm

    I learned that you have to be a lot more flexible with your schedule.

    Reply
  32. debra says

    05/07/2014 at 5:20 pm

    After 13 years of infertility, and then becoming pregnant without any medical intervention whatsover; I learned what it truly means to never give up HOPE! I now have two beautiful daughters that I am thankful for every day, when I look at them, I am reminded that miracles happen when we least expect them.

    Reply
  33. Kelly D says

    05/07/2014 at 2:40 pm

    As a parent, I learned to be flexible with my plans since they can always change with kids.

    Reply
  34. Crimson says

    05/07/2014 at 1:41 pm

    I learned not to worry so much about things I can not control and to go more with the flow and have more patience.

    Reply
  35. Stephanie says

    05/07/2014 at 12:26 pm

    I learned to be more patient!

    Reply
  36. tammy shelton says

    05/07/2014 at 11:39 am

    I learned patience from my kids and now even more with my grands.

    Reply
  37. Elle says

    05/07/2014 at 11:35 am

    I learned to have a lot of patience and understanding and to learn to loosen up.

    Reply
  38. nicole dz says

    05/07/2014 at 11:18 am

    To slow down and appreciate time more and to just relax and enjoy every moment with a smile.

    Reply
  39. Heather says

    05/07/2014 at 11:11 am

    The most important thing I try to remember is that the days may be long, but the years are short.

    Reply
  40. Amanda Reid says

    05/07/2014 at 10:57 am

    I’ve learned to be more patient and to let my house be messy :-)

    Reply
  41. Heather says

    05/07/2014 at 10:14 am

    With 4 kids I’ve learned that no matter what 2 kids are not the same.

    Reply
  42. Elena says

    05/07/2014 at 9:56 am

    I learned to be more patient

    Reply
  43. Lindsey Smith-Mann says

    05/07/2014 at 9:56 am

    This was beautiful, Adrianne!

    Reply
  44. Julie Wood says

    05/07/2014 at 9:46 am

    I learned to love my children with unconditional love and that I know I am a loyal person and can stand with my child and help them no matter what.

    Reply
  45. Mary Happymommy says

    05/07/2014 at 8:56 am

    I learned to love my children unconditionally.

    Reply
  46. Janet W. says

    05/07/2014 at 7:00 am

    I learned to be more patient and to not let the little things bother me.

    Reply
  47. Lisa Brown says

    05/07/2014 at 6:49 am

    I learned patience, something I did lack a bit of.

    Reply
  48. Sandra VanHoey says

    05/07/2014 at 6:10 am

    I learned to enjoy each moment, take those little kisses and hugs as often as you can because they grow too quickly and the day soon comes they don’t want them like they did when they were babies

    Reply

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